The Value of Paying for Expertise: My Response to Free vs. Paid Training
I had a little bit of ye olde resistance writing this email
(which probably means its the RIGHT thing to do)
anyhoo....
Last week a guy commented on a video I did about that whole Wakey Wines/Prime Energy drink thing
the guy in question later apologised
(fair play to him)
but he basically said this. In fact, here are his EXACT words (most people would NOT share this kinda stuff)
“Your the biggest fraudster going. Paul the scammer mort”
I had to look BEYOND the fake account and the embarrassing spelling to ask him a question
I said “Name ONE person I’ve ‘scammed’ out of the thousands I’ve worked with”
The response.
TUMBLEWEED. NOTHING. NADA.
See, I’m SERIOUS about what I do and what we do WORKS… (when the person works, of course)
And I VALUE MYSELF, my time and my expertise… and I’m worth EVERY PENNY I charge for coaching…
But this guy thinks I should be doing EVERYTHING for free… like he goes to work for free (HE DOESN’T, of course)
What’s really going on here is this >>
This guy wants to work with me (I actually know who it is)
But he doesn’t have the money… he told me he spends his money on booze and cocaine
And instead of just OWNING that… he’s trying to blame ME
I get it. It’s EASY to call someone a fraudster… and it’d HARD to admit your life is your responsibility
I get it, I’ve done it too
But the thing is…
I've put out over 200 videos packed with useable tips on social media
THOUSANDS of posts and daily emails
200+ free podcasts jam packed with inspiration
- DAILY Q and A’s on Instagram
- MULTIPLE free online workshops
- ALL FOR FREE
and you know what?
thats EXACTLY why I charge (what i'm worth) for my seminars, coaching and courses
because the thing is, even though I've put out HUNDREDS of hours worth of free trainings
this fella (and most other people) do NOTHING with it
NOT because its not useful but BECAUSE ITS FREE
and because its free << it holds no value to them
read it again, my mate ^^^
theres an old saying
"People that pay, pay attention"
why?
well its simple. When you INVEST in anything (in this case yourself) you WANT a RETURN on that investment
its natural, human nature
therefore you're extraordinarily likely to DO SOMETHING WITH WHAT YOU LEARN
and in return- EXPERIENCE A DRAMATIC UPGRADE IN YOUR LIFE